ALways believe in yourself even when others don’t. Our greatest weakness lies in giving upon ourselves so easily that is what society taught us, not to believe in ourselves, the is “if you don’t believe in yourself, who else will believe in you?” So you heve to first believe in you.
When life puts you in tough situations, don’t say “why me? Instead say ” TRY ME!”
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent. We only regret the chances we fail to take at the end when we last had it. Life is like riding a bicycle, to keep your balance; you must keep moving, keep paddling the penders even if you are climbing the hill. Life is so much brighter when we focus on what truly matters.
Pay no attention to those who talk behind your back, it only means you are two steps ahead of them.
Be grateful to the difficult people around you, because they only show you exactly who you don’t want to be or the stuff you are made of. They force you to take that bold step you are afraid of taking.
Life is not all about the happy ending, but also it’s about the interesting story. Life goes on whether you choose to move on and take a chance in the unknown, or stay behind, locked in the past thinking of what could have been.
Sometime, around 1995 when I was in the technical college, I often say, the world is moving at an unimaginable speed and whoever that refuse to move along will be left behind, baxk then non of us has ever heard or knew something called internet will ever be in place. Today with your smarphone in your hands the entire world is in your palms as a result innovation in technology.
Never give up especially in the beginning because it’s always the hardest of the journey. Spending the whole of today complaining about yesterday wouldn’t make tomorrow any better. Anytime I look back on my life, I realise that everytime I thought I was being Rejected from something good. I was Actually Being Re-directed to something Better. Endeavour to enjoy every moments of your life, learn to energise yourself in any situation you find yourself, because they don’t and will not last forever.
Life is like the Ocean, it can be calm or still, and rough or rigid, but in the end it is always beautiful.
There are twenty – six english alphabets, therefore I choose to encourage myself whenever plan A failed. I stay encouraged because there are other twenty – five alphabets to work with, this is the simply reason I have never be discouraged in my journey of life.
I have be through many challenges in life, but I learnt to keep my head always above the water.
Unless you faint or die, endeavour to keep going. Life is a way too short to spend another day at war with yourself.
Today, you are YOU, that is truer tgan true. There is no one alive who is youer than YOU. You were given tgis life because you are capable and strong enough to live it. Therefore rise up and live this life to the fullness.
You only found happiness both within and outside when you stop comparing yourself to other people.
Don’t try to change in other for people to start liking yoy. Be yourself and the right people will eventually fall in love with you, be real.
Everyday may not be good, but the truth is there is something good in everyday. There is a second chance in everyday. The struggle you are in today is only developing the strength you need for tomorrow. Hardship often prepare ordinary people for an extra-ordinary Destiny.
Reba McEntire once said “for you to thrive in life you need three BONES”
Imagination is more important than knowledge. You don’t have to be great to start, but you have to start to be great. Motivation is what gets you started, while you will keep going by yoir habit.
You can close your eyes to the things you don’t want to see, but you can’t close your heart to the things you don’t want to feel. If it doesn’t challenge you, it can never and will never change you.
So stop wishing and start doing. ACTION!!! A good head and a good heart are always a formidsble combination.
Stars can’t shine without darkness, your beauty, talent and potentials are revealed through challenges or difficult situations.
You have got what it takes, but it will take everything you have got to manifest.
My seven lovely secrets that kept me moving are:
*I learn to make peace with my past, so it doesn’t spoil my present and future. Your present is the bridge between your past and your future, so when you allowed your past destroy the bridge the possibility of you going through will be very difficult.
*What others think of me is none of my budiness. I refused to be distracted no matter what.
*Time heals almost everything. Therefore give time sometime.
*No one is the reason of my happiness, except me, myself. Also no one can make me to be sad excep me myself.
There was a time in the organisation where I worked. The junior staff were promoted not on merits but rather on godfatherism and favourism. Most of us that were affected started feeling bad of themselves.
A very senior officer once asked me, “why are you not feeling bad about what has just happened, everyone knew what happened that it’s a complete cheat? I asked him, ” sir, what can you do to change the damage that has be done”? He said nothing, then why should I bother myself about what I have no power over?
*I never compare myself or life with others, because I have no ideas what their journey is all about. I once told my father that, “there is no competition in destiny” but you must remain focus and deterrmined about your destiny to forcefully get the delivering if your destiny.
*Stop thinking too much, it’s alright not to know all the answers to every difficulties of life.
*I smile always, I realise that the most five letter words that is often use and does not cost you anything but rather benefits you is called “SMILE”