WHAT IS STOPPING YOU? Part One.

ALways believe in yourself even when others don’t. Our greatest weakness lies in giving upon ourselves so easily that is what society taught us, not to believe in ourselves, the is “if you don’t believe in yourself, who else will believe in you?” So you heve to first believe in you.

When life puts you in tough situations, don’t say “why me? Instead say ” TRY ME!”

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent. We only regret the chances we fail to take at the end when we last had it. Life is like riding a bicycle, to keep your balance; you must keep moving, keep paddling the penders even if you are climbing the hill. Life is so much brighter when we focus on what truly matters.
Pay no attention to those who talk behind your back, it only means you are two steps ahead of them.

Be grateful to the difficult people around you, because they only show you exactly who you don’t want to be or the stuff you are made of. They force you to take that bold step you are afraid of taking.

Life is not all about the happy ending, but also it’s about the interesting story. Life goes on whether you choose to move on and take a chance in the unknown, or stay behind, locked in the past thinking of what could have been.

Sometime, around 1995 when I was in the technical college, I often say, the world is moving at an unimaginable speed and whoever that refuse to move along will be left behind, baxk then non of us has ever heard or knew something called internet will ever be in place. Today with your smarphone in your hands the entire world is in your palms as a result innovation in technology.

Never give up especially in the beginning because it’s always the hardest of the journey. Spending the whole of today complaining about yesterday wouldn’t make tomorrow any better. Anytime I look back on my life, I realise that everytime I thought I was being Rejected from something good. I was Actually Being Re-directed to something Better. Endeavour to enjoy every moments of your life, learn to energise yourself in any situation you find yourself, because they don’t and will not last forever.

Life is like the Ocean, it can be calm or still, and rough or rigid, but in the end it is always beautiful.

There are twenty – six english alphabets, therefore I choose to encourage myself whenever plan A failed. I stay encouraged because there are other twenty – five alphabets to work with, this is the simply reason I have never be discouraged in my journey of life.

I have be through many challenges in life, but I learnt to keep my head always above the water.
Unless you faint or die, endeavour to keep going. Life is a way too short to spend another day at war with yourself.
Today, you are YOU, that is truer tgan true. There is no one alive who is youer than YOU. You were given tgis life because you are capable and strong enough to live it. Therefore rise up and live this life to the fullness.

You only found happiness both within and outside when you stop comparing yourself to other people.
Don’t try to change in other for people to start liking yoy. Be yourself and the right people will eventually fall in love with you, be real.

Everyday may not be good, but the truth is there is something good in everyday. There is a second chance in everyday. The struggle you are in today is only developing the strength you need for tomorrow. Hardship often prepare ordinary people for an extra-ordinary Destiny.

Reba McEntire once said “for you to thrive in life you need three BONES”
*A WISHBONE
*A BACKBONE
*A FUNNYBONE

Imagination is more important than knowledge. You don’t have to be great to start, but you have to start to be great. Motivation is what gets you started, while you will keep going by yoir habit.
You can close your eyes to the things you don’t want to see, but you can’t close your heart to the things you don’t want to feel. If it doesn’t challenge you, it can never and will never change you.

So stop wishing and start doing. ACTION!!! A good head and a good heart are always a formidsble combination.

Stars can’t shine without darkness, your beauty, talent and potentials are revealed through challenges or difficult situations.
You have got what it takes, but it will take everything you have got to manifest.

My seven lovely secrets that kept me moving are:
*I learn to make peace with my past, so it doesn’t spoil my present and future. Your present is the bridge between your past and your future, so when you allowed your past destroy the bridge the possibility of you going through will be very difficult.

*What others think of me is none of my budiness. I refused to be distracted no matter what.

*Time heals almost everything. Therefore give time sometime.

*No one is the reason of my happiness, except me, myself. Also no one can make me to be sad excep me myself.
There was a time in the organisation where I worked. The junior staff were promoted not on merits but rather on godfatherism and favourism. Most of us that were affected started feeling bad of themselves.
A very senior officer once asked me, “why are you not feeling bad about what has just happened, everyone knew what happened that it’s a complete cheat? I asked him, ” sir, what can you do to change the damage that has be done”? He said nothing, then why should I bother myself about what I have no power over?

*I never compare myself or life with others, because I have no ideas what their journey is all about. I once told my father that, “there is no competition in destiny” but you must remain focus and deterrmined about your destiny to forcefully get the delivering if your destiny.

*Stop thinking too much, it’s alright not to know all the answers to every difficulties of life.

*I smile always, I realise that the most five letter words that is often use and does not cost you anything but rather benefits you is called “SMILE”

NEVER STOP BELIEVING IN YOURSELF

Constant learning is the secret key to a successful living.
Warren Buffet, once said, “The more a man learn the more he earn”.
That’s so true; look at the successful people like Bill Gates, Steve Jobs, Elon Musk, Mark Cuban, Jeff Bezos presently the world richest CEO Amazon, Jack Ma the founder of Alibaba and any other highly successful human. They are successful because they use their time right.

They are successful because they are lifetime learners. They commit to learning new things every single day.
Warren Buffet one of the wealthiest human on the planet earth, is famous for reading more than five hours everyday. Not just reading breaking news that will not make an impart in his life but rather, he is committeded to readin endifing, inspirational, motivational, insightful and entreprenuerer materials. Bill Gates reads one book per week. Mark Cuban three hours a day.

Think about this, successful people never stop learning. You have 86,400 naira or dollar to spend every single day but when the day is over, the money disappears. You can’t get it back, my question is ” would you like to spend all the money before they disappear? Or rather use it wisely? Use it as BEST YOU COULD? The choice is yours. The sad part is we only have 86,400 seconds equally in a day and MOST PEOPLE take this time for granted. Most people let this time disappear without a second thought. We never get this time back.

We must use it wise, we must be productive and proactive, we must use our time to do the things we enjoy, or use it to SET UP OUR LIFE. So we can spend our future doing more things we want to do.
Instead of wasting your time on meaningless things, such as playing video games, partying around town, the other day I saw where full able body men wasting their precious and valuable time dragging within themselves playing draf, almost at the point of fighting themselves for nothing. Why not use this time in learning new innovative things? This is what separates the successful from the unsuccessful. Both are in the same society, same visinity, same establishments/organisations, yet some are more successful than some.
The secret is the usage of time, all you need is determination and total commitment.

Once you use that time IT’S GONE FOREVER. Use your time wisely, Read books, study hard and learn as much as you CAN. Most people give up on their dreams because it gets too hard. A lot if students stop chasing their dreams because of one failed test, as a matter of fact, most students even try their best when they take the test because in their minds, they had already failed the test.
They stop believing in themselves and once they belief the dream is killed, the dream is killed.

Recently, there is this post that was published on 29th day of October, 2017 of a 16 year old 100 level student of microbiology at the Obafemi Awolowo University Ile-Ife miss. Mercy Afolaranmi, who committed suicide over poor grade in her first semester, can you imagine that, a newbie who just gain admission into one of the most famous university in Nigeria, just because she got poor grade she killed herself, she fails to believe in herself. Instead of killing yourself, why not look inward and start believing in yourself and start working hard on your weak points.

IF YOU HAVE A DREAM YOU MUST DO EVERYTHING TO MAKE IT INTO REALITY.
It doesn’t matter how many times you fail a test.

NEVER STOP!BELIEVING IN YOURSELF. Life itself is a test sometimes you would fail, but the only way you can be a failure is if you STOP TRYING.
WHATEVER DREAM YOU HAVE USE ALL YOUR ENERGY TO MAKE IT INTO REALITY. PUSH YOURSELF TO BECOME THE PERSON YOU ARE DESTINED TO BECOME. If you want to get the RESULTS you have never got before, you are going to have to do things you have never done before! The richest man in the world , Bill Gates was once asked, “which superpower he would like to have?” The richest man in the world said that he would want the ability to read books faster.

Success is not about money, the fame or a big house, is about becoming the best VERSION OF YOURSELF. You will fall down many times on the road to success, the most important thing is that you GET BACK UP. GET BACK UP STRONG and be wiser than before. Create a mindset that does not allow you to quit or stop believing. If you quit on your dream and give up, you will never know how great you can be.

NEVER DOUBT YOURSELF. Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will. Work on yourself every single day. This is your life we are talking about. Nothing is more important than it.

The 5 Unbreakable Laws Of Online Wealth Building

When the internet first started, few could ever imagine how far reaching it’s effects will be more than a decade down the line. It’s a fact of life now that the internet will continue to change virtually every aspect of our everyday life. As the world’s internet population keeps expanding, so does the opportunities for entrepreneurs and ordinary folk looking to escape the slavery of a nine to five job.

Online wealth building is for everyone. The sheer amount of opportunities presented online enables anybody to start building wealth online. There are just so many areas to explore and regardless of your level of talent, skill or interest, you will find something that suits you. Someone once said that ‘you can turn any passion into profit online’ and this is more true now than ever before. It seems like the biggest problem is not in finding a suitable program, but rather in not getting distracted by all the various options that we get bombarded with. Every single day new opportunities open up and it’s our natural tendency to get in on the action. Online wealth building however relies on focus and having the discipline to not get distracted.

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The Ultimate Wealth Building System

Most people search for the ultimate wealth building system for most of their lives. It may surprise you to know that you own half of it the day you are born.

What half do you own? It’s your ability to make money. No matter what your education level or skill level, you have income earning power. Want to hear the good news about that and how it connects you to the ultimate wealth building system?

It’s not how much you make; it’s what you do with it that determines your financial condition.

The second half of the ultimate wealth building system is what you do with the money that you earn. There is a system to controlling the flow of money to create wealth. Very rich people know this system. It works whether you are an employee who works for someone else and you are using the system to control the flow of your personal income, or if you are a business owner using the system to control the flow of the company’s income. It is an amazingly simple system.

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Secret To Financial Freedom

 

Financial freedom, secret of success from investment, real estate, stock market wealth, profit, internet marketing, millionaire, income, security, opportunities, home-based business, money, cash, fortune!!

It has always been mankind dream and desire to seek Freedom – Freedom of thoughts, Freedom of speech, Freedom of belief, and Freedom of expression! Why then not Financial Freedom!

Wikipedia definition – “Financial freedom describes a well-planned lifestyle where one no longer is required to work for income to cover their expenses”.

Rich Dad, Poor Dad series and other books on personal finance really got me interested and wondered why school and college didn’t teach us how to be financially intelligence.

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Attract The Wealth You Deserve

 

Is it good when you have huge deposits in the bank, plenty of valuable possessions, abundance of anything of value? Nearly all, measured wealth is in monetary factors. We say that people are wealthy when we see their grand mansions, different cars, lots of jewelry, or expensive clothes.

We assess wealth by material possessions. Wealth can be inherited or created. Only few are born wealthy, most need to work hard and sacrifice a lot of things in order live like a prince. Wealth begets wealth if you know how to manage it.

So the more money you have the more you will become wealthy. Richness offers a lot of opportunities and opens closed doors. It elevates your social standing and gives you power.

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